what do u mean bachur24, i like talking to a guy on the phone cause u get a better feel of who he really is. he may sound perfect on paper as do most people but then in person its another story. also references as we know beat around the bush and are always biased since its their friend, rebbe, etc. i said no to a guy after talking on the phone with him…or should i say he was the one talking for 3 hours straight about himself, at the end of the conversation I was like, u know i have to think about it and get back to you…
also when you talk on the phone you can plan the first date together so this way if he says u wanna go to starbucks or a lounge u can say which u would prefer and then dress appropriately….