oomis1105: I realize I lost this one with you before I started, but, may I ask you a couple of questions.
Lets say a fine guy, for instance a mathematician with a squeaky voice, goes out with a girl. when he brings her home, she asks him to let her out so she can take a short-cut to her house. How do you think the guy felt? Do you think this guy will now think twice before getting out of the car and walking another girl in?
Do you think that girls behavior may not have been all that refined either?
I posted my opinion, for all its worth, right at the beginning of this thread that its the right thing for a guy to walk her back. However, I would never consider it boorish. I just wonder if you consider this girls behavior to be boorish. And if so, just as she was able to do teshuvah, and come around to be a wonderful person, maybe these guys can as well.
What do you think oomis1105?