@oomis-
” It is sad if a guy (I am not talking about you) does not on his own realize that it is proper, considerate, thoughtful, and simple menschlechkeit to get out of the car,walk a girl to her door “
I guess I’m a sad case, because I don’t understand why it is simple menshlechkeit to do so. The best that was explained to me, earlier on the thread, is that some girls just feel protected when it is done, despite there really being no logic behind it. And that’s fine and I would do it if all girls felt that way, but it seems that there is a big split. But either way you seem to have very strong words, would you care to explain why you feel that it is so necessary?
“and see her safely inside”
I would definitely agree with you that it is a complete lack of manners to not make sure she is safely inside, but that can be done without walking her the ten feet to her door.