To both Eclipse & Health, What I said is not specific to only one of you. I have said this before to Eclipse and although this time I addressed it to you, Health, you will each at the right time, find someone who will complete you and heal you. That person will make you feel like you are royalty and will make you both feel like the important people you truly are.
We can’t control other people we can only control ourselves and make the best choices we can for ourselves. We can also choose to be the best role models we can be for our children and pray that they see the sincerity and honesty in what we do. However, if they see that we do what we do and are still unhappy and miserable, what message are we sending them? A yid darf zein b’simcha. We must do what we can to move forward and be oved Hashem b’simcha. We must do what we can to put the past behind us, live in the present and build a better future.
And no its not easy, not for you and not for me, but we keep on trying every morning when we thank Hashem for another day and another opportunity. We have no idea why we had to have our nisyonos. We also have no idea what else Hashem has in store for us. So maybe the biggest nisayon is to “keep the faith” strengthen our bitachon and emunah and know that Hashem loves us.