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Health, when 2 people divorce, wouldnt BOTH parties feel the other abused them in some way, (whether real or imagined)?

Being middle aged and having heard and seen a lot, I think, in their heart of hearts, even relatively happily married people have some grievance against their spouse that often involves some kind of abuse, kal v chomer divorced couples. I think many relatively happily married people have an “if only he/she” that’s very painful, but live with it because they know life isnt perfect, and the good outweighs the bad.