eclipse: “tycoon”. Guys may have certain unrealistic expectations for looks (and other things). Girls have different unrealistic expectations, both in regards to appearance and romance. More so on the romance and tycoon part, that the guy is both a respected talmud chochom and a successful professional. They may end up getting “hurt” (offended) easily.
I hesitate to say this is how it is. However, it is prudent for an older girl to consider these potential pit-falls and avoid them.