Ofcourse and tbt- I won;t get into too much detail, but I meant that the thing I did for the person was emotionally painful and I knew it would be before I did it. However, I knew the other person needed me to do it to have peace of mind. I won;t go further than that.
tbt – I am not sure how you define a selfless act as love of yourself and I know this line that everyone says about love can only be after marriage. no one has ever explained that to me in a way that made sense. I think love can come before marriage. I agree it is very different from the love you feel after marriage, but it is possible to love someone before. Just to go extreme here, you love your father, mother, brother, etc. and you are not married to them. So why is loving a girl different? Like I said, I am agreeing that after marriage it is different/more/better or whatever you want to call it, but I don;t see why you can’t love the other person (as opposed to yourself) before.