tomim tihye – If a person has a FIFTH sense in shidduchim I think that person may be blind. sorry. couldn’t resist.
I agree with smartcookie on this one. A lack of chemistry is important but its not the only thing. That said, chemistry has to be there. chemistry means different things to different people. For example, I would say that if everyone would be looking for the same kind of chem as chassidim on a beshow, most people would consider themselves to have chemistry. Also, there is a difference from a gender perspective. guys and girls need different things to feel the chemistry. In a practical sense, since chemistry is an emotional thing, it can be said to be the thing that makes your emotions feel good enough that some of the fears and anxieties you may have about marrying the person go away, but I will not commit to that being the only definition.