You should keep in mind that this was Bashert. There is nothing you can do!
Hopefully, your daughter will live a very happy life, but in the event that it turns out differently, you should know that was also Bashert.
Besides, that if you have other children, you will anyway have some DIL/SIL you will love everything about them, and others that you might be disappointed with.
As long as you’re daughter is happy, you should definitely be happy!