Thanks ‘aries2756’ – I liked what you wrote about people not wanting their private business on display.
Has it occured to anyone that maybe all singles (divorced, widowed or regular) don’t like having their marital status stamped on their forhead?
Someone I once worked with told me his answer to the standard ‘what are you looking for?’ question when it comes from total (or even less total) strangers. He used to tell them ‘If you know me well enough to redd me a shidduch then you shouldn’t need to ask’.
Or in other words the people suggesting people for these divorced men and women (and for everyone else as well) should be people who know them and their situation.
It does sometimes make it easier if you can just look at them and tell but it’s not the most sensitive of ways to go about it.