Mods: some posters seem to be genuinely puzzled why posts dont get thru when they’re not particularly inappropriate as mod 80 wrote above.
Perhaps whenever a post is edited or deleted, you should email the post and the reason to the poster. There cant be too many reasons. Then they would know why, and could word future posts accordingly.
A short simple reason eg inappropriate or too long or not relevant etc would suffice to give YOUR view, cos its up to you, and then at least we all know where we stand.
EDITED POST
Please note there is more than one moderator and therefore it can be subjective at times. Also posts are deleted if they are prying or deceptive or looking to expose a posters identity.