I have heard of newlyweds having help. What do I think? If you can afford it, go for it. I also think they are spoiled.
Honestly, I look forward to all that “menial labor” that I will iy”h be able to do for my husband. Nothing says “I Love You” more than a home cooked meal, a freshly laundered and pressed shirt, clean sheets, and a sparkling house that you did BY YOURSELF FOR HIM!
(“Hire a surrogate to have the kids” LOL! Classic.)