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Divorced_Guy
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Proposal re redding shidduchim. The Gedolim should encourage every married person to spend one hour a month working on shidduchim for non-relatives. Remember the famous story with R. Yisroel Salanter where someone told him he only has 15 minutes a day to learn and R. Yisroel told him to learn mussar. So he will find more time to learn. I believe that if every married man and women in klal yisroel would spend one hour a month on shidduchim for non-relatives people would find much more time and this problem will be alleviated.

Ofcourse — tell your friends to start redding shidduchim to other people, before they know it those people will return the favor. I know a Rov who was having a hard time with shidduchim for his kids. He decided to start redding for other people and b’h his kids are now married. We all need to devote time to redding for others and this matzav can be improved.