I second the advice to get advice NOT exclusively from here.
Alt med may actually offer something. I was lucky to have a homeopath to work with. We were at the “this is the last infection, then we’re going to tubes” stage and gave acidopholous a try with the antibiotics. It worked! Acidopholous is safe and worth a try.
What else we did, I won’t say. Alt med is not covered by insurance, you can’t guarantee results and that you’ll find someone reputable, and this is definitely not the forum to discuss this further, find the references you need, etc.
B”H, I’m glad we avoided tubes. All that said, had we needed to do it we had a GREAT shaliach. A mensch, highly recommended, and as he said, he’s a mechanic when it comes to this. He does tubes, all the time, for years, knows what he’s doing and it would have been far from the end of the world.
(All this coming from someone who had her tonsils out 40 years ago, and that worked!)