Reply To: Dating & Giving In

cshapiro

I was speaking generally.

aries

I dont think he was spoiled or selfish, I think we just werent a match at the end of the day, as much as he wanted it to work. If you notice my wording in the original question: “at what point do you say, maybe we are just not meant to be?”

I realized that he was acting in such a way because he was torn. He wanted it to work yet he wanted to still live the life he had planned and envisioned for himself. Whatever the excuse may be, I am looking for someone (especially at age 27) who can work through their feelings and not act out in such a way, at which point I realized and subsequently told him this isnt going to work.

(Wow, I’m glad I shared that personal story…)