From what I’ve seen and heard, knowing very well many girls in their mid to upper twenties, unless they’re lucky enough to date guys close in age, THERE ARE EXCEPTIONS!!!!, but, by and large the guys who are approaching 30, either have commitment issues, are impossible to please, arent sure they want or need to get married period, or have a hidden or not so hidden mental or physical issue, to name some issues. From the girls and the mothers Ive spoken to, who have dated these guys, the girls decide rather than marry a guy who is damaged goods, they’ll stay single.
No marriage is better than a marriage from hell and the hellish experience of bringing children into such a marriage.
Anyone disagree?
Thats why it’s imperative for a girl to find a Shidduch young, and very sad when she hasnt, because the “normal” choices diminish GREATLY with each passing year. It really is like the game of musical chairs, with less and less “normal, usable” chairs as time goes on. No one wants or needs a problematic chair that will collapse upon use.
Dont waste your time arguing that the remaining girls have issues as well. Possibly, but at a tiny fraction relative to the guys.