Reply To: Am I shallow?

@coffee fan-

I actually went out a second time to see if I would change my mind or if it was something she was wearing, and I was kind of looking for a hashkafik difference so I could say that as the reason. I did find a big difference of opinions so I cited that as my reason for the no.

@so right-

so anything that is “livable” a person should be willing to marry? Why don’t we have 22 year olds marry 40 year olds according to your reasoning? they won’t divorce them when they’re 40? or what about a terminal disease chas v’shalom, as I’ve mentioned? should it matter if a boy has a job? why? will you divorce him if he’s fired? what about a handicap?

@cshapiro-

I definitely hear that but I can only speak for myself and I make an effort to stay in shape and exercise.