AOM -the truth is everyone has Chessronos. It’s only with the chessed of Hashem that people get/stay married. Esp. the way we find our partner -a couple of dates- that’s all. It takes a least 6 months of full time living with someone to get to know them. Maybe that’s why the Torah says Nokkey Yeyeh L’baiso Shana Echus. It might take upto a year to get to know one another. It takes a lot of Siyata D’shimaya, and this is what I’m hoping for. And no, I’m not advocating dating for long periods of time.
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