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apushatayid
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When it comes to shidduchim seems there are emotions that run the full gamut. At one extreme we have those who feel shadchanim are underpaid, underappreciated, misused and abused and on the other extreme are those who claim shadchannim ignore you and dont give you the time of day (along with several choice comments about witholding pertinent information and outright lying). A very toxic mix. Are there any professional shadchannim reading this? What is YOUR take?