Sac, CJP, We Are better spritually but that’s not the point.
The question is as follows, “are these feelings that one feels, that you all loosely call “Love” translating into Ahavah,
considered according to Chazal, i.e. The Torah,
to be Ahavah/True Love or not, and the answer is no
it is not Ahavah, True Love, the feelings one feels when dating before marriage. Very simply put you are using the wrong word.
The word Ahava describes something true.