1) Where is he during his friends weddings?
a)Does he mostly dance by his friends weddings,
b)or does he hang out by the sweet table,
c)or is he outside smoking,
d)or in hall on his cell phone.
2) Does he offer rides to random people when he can.
3) Does he respect his parents & elders.
4) Does he drive like a mentsch.
5) Does he wait till after Oleinu to take off his tefillin.