Mevakesh1, I can understand your need to distance yourself from parents for reasons which you don’t have to reveal. I suggest you don’t initiate contact with her for a trial period of time and see if she will then initiate with you. If she doesn’t it may be time to come out & ask if perhaps she feels you have hurt her in some way i.e. being to patronizing etc. Don’t bring up the word husband she will come to that conclusion herself. She will most probably tell you that it has nothing to do with you & the understanding just dawned on her.
Hazlocha these issues cvan be tricky & require lots of eggshell walking.