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I usually give the shadchan a small gift if we were to go out 3 times or more to show hakaras hatov. If it is less than that, I always make sure to thank him/her for going out of their way and trying to help me. I have found out from alot of shadchanim that alot of times after a couple has dated for a while and one side breaks it off, they wouldn’t even get a thank you, let alone a gift!