Reply To: Opening the Car Door for Your Date

I agree with popa that the argument here is to what extent we are supposed to breach tznius in the courting process. I am stating that this, like Mayan’s Rosh Yeshiva’s example of giving a rose by the badeken, is crossing the line. And I am pleased to see in addition to popa being able to “see this viewpoint”, Proud Hadarling and bjjkid too experienced or witnessed proud Yidden knowing that they shouldn’t play the open the door romance.

I didn’t mean to imply this falls strictly in the category of chukas hagoyim. But tznius is a definite issue. Not everything is black and white. That doesn’t mean its okay. Like I said, a guy walking down the Avenue in a bathing suit is not either a strict black and white violation. And I don’t know where it is written that 6″ high red heels are either.