Reply To: Opening the Car Door for Your Date

“popa”,

I disagree with you. Romance, and its chivalrous offshoot, are pritzus. But I’ll put that point aside for the moment and ask you what I asked cshapiro: Should the guy also hand her the fork in the restaurant, due to “middos”? Would it be bad middos if he doesn’t hand her the fork?

And if not, why is handing her the fork at the restaurant, any different than opening the door for her?