Frum girls (especially the frummer ones) don’t expect to have the door opened for them, and in fact are turned off by it.
Then I guess you’re calling my wife not frum, because she likes it when I hold the door open for her (along with doing other considerate things). She is most certainly not “turned off” by my showing courtesy for her.
I think you owe Eeees an apology for calling her not frum.
The Wolf