My problem is that the children of divorce that I know are always trying to make up for their lost childhood to the detriment of their children.
Then you know the wrong people.
I am the child of divorced parents. I am not trying to make up for my “lost childhood” (whatever the heck that means) and certainly not at the expense of my children.
And WOLF I am not blaming them but trying to do what is best for MY child>
By all means, do what’s right for your kids. If a divorce adversely affected a potential shidduch to the point where they are warped because of it, then by all means reject them. But don’t reject every kid of divorced parents out of hand before even meeting them. Not all of us are raving monsters you know.
The Wolf