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You really can’t generalize in this situation. It’s possible that a person from a divorced home will be so much more careful that they don’t fall into the same situation that they grew up in,with only one parent living at home. They could so much have been scarred that it would make them try their utmost to have a good,healthy marriage.

Then again,it’s also possible that they saw bad behaviors modeled in front of them by the parents,and even though divorce was very hard on the person,it is all he or she knows,so it’s possible for him/her to fall into the same situation.just because he or she doesn’t know any better.

I would say look into the person,ask around…are they stable,good natured,responsible,mentchlich? Then go ahead and try. You never know…also,it’s a plus if the person had some type of counseling at the time,to help him/her deal with the trauma of divorcing parents. This way it’s not buried under the carpet,so to speak. It’s all out there and dealt with.

Good luck!