I am a 63 year old married 40 plus years and have never gone out with out my wife. The closest thing to going out are the drives to our “out of town” children, and the Friday night walks around the block. Why do you have to go out for quality time with your spouse wneh you live it? B”H our children are all happily married.
The only time I have seen a display of affection between my father A”H & ???? ????? my mother was once in his late 80s when Mother ???? came home from the hospital and he patted her hand.
I and the nevetheless knew what they felt for each other.
My childern know our feelings to each other without any overt displays.