WIY,” I dont know for sure what it is…”
If you don’t know why, maybe you should take to heart what people are telling you and really give it some thought. No one wishes you any harm and no one wants to hurt you here, honestly, I certainly don’t. But you can be and “are” hurtful to others at times and you just don’t want to or refuse to see it and accept it. If it is brought to your attention you just argue it away in your need to be right. You are not always right. Many times you are, but many times you are not and others are. Is the need to be right so important to you that you are willing to ignore the fine points others are trying to teach you? Is it only you that is able to teach others? Isn’t it a two way street?