Reply To: Should we de-flaw first?

How do people manage to misread me??

Tzippi;I in no way equated weight gain with bad midos.Please re-read my post,without injecting implications that were not there.Thank you.(metabolism is not always in one’s control)

Health; Re:”excuse not to try”?If you read my post SLOWLY AND CAREFULLY,you will see that my question is:

Since it often takes time to correct a midah/lose weight…perhaps it isn’t feasible to wait until then to begin dating,or nobody would ever be absolutely “ready”.

WIY:I am not referring to midos that make one “unmarriageable”.Or weight that is “over the top”.Average range imperfections,that compromise what the person deeems his/her personal value to be.