Sacrilege
(You are 24 its different with younger girls who are newer to dating. Im serious I had that discussion with a girl, it was after dating enough times where I felt she should have a say in what we do and she just utterly refused to make any suggestions, yeah it was very sweet of her to say that shes just happy being with me and anything is fine, but thats not what I wanted to hear when I asked her “where would you like to go”)
I agree that men should show their ability to make decisions and be creative, but after 5 dates I dont see why a girl cant say lets go to blank blah bloo shazam whatever place. Or at least mention some places shed like to go or some things she would like to do. We dont like lounges either and we dont want to take you to expensive restaurants on every date.
Trust me, guys also like girls who can make up their minds and can come up with ideas. Its no fun to always be the one planning everything knowing that the girl cant come up with one decent date idea. Even worse is thinking that every date is always where I want to go and if I like the girl and I want to do what she likes to do she never gives me the opportunity to take her where she wants to go or to do what she wants to do because she wont speak up.