BPT
Oh, believe me I have been unconventional almost for as long as I’ve been conventional, and @ 23, dating for 5 years well, you do the math… I simply dont have patience for things to “fall into place”.
I think another major problem when dating “unconventionally” is that there arent Yeshivish and Modern Yeshivish people in that pool. It is usually more of the Modern Orthodox (across the spectrum) that find their dates on their own. I think the Yeshiva World has to come up with a Kosher way of having boys and girls meet.