mama
“wiy – i dont need to speak to a rebbetzin. i know what i want.”
That doesnt mean you shouldnt speak things through. I know plenty of people including myself who “thought” they knew what they wanted, then had a heart to heart with someone older and wiser who explained some things that we hadnt thought of and made us realize that maybe some of ideas are wrong or misguided. Im not saying you dont know what you want, but what you “think” you may want is not necessarily what you really want and may be clouded by emotions or whatever.
You can do whatever you feel like but you can only gain by talking things through thoroughly with a Rebbitzen, (former sem teacher whatever…)