I know the family to which Shraga is referring.
They are lovely people and have a wonderful background with Ba alei Chasodim.
Dont start playing the ‘holier than thou’ with mekoros.
Only a person who went through a tragedy like this can truly understand.
If you tell them that you came across someone who knows them (me for instance) and praised them, I think thats the biggest mitzvah you can do without emphasizing the pain they just experienced.
Feif un,
Thats a lovely poem, even if it reaks Christianty, lol!