You have to be a little more specific if you want help it’s not clear if the information that got out is something small that you’re bugging out about for no reason or if it’s something serious. At least elaborate if it’s something about you you’re family your hashkafos etc.
Since you left out the details let me indulge myself with possible scenarios
1)Shadchan- so would you go out with a boy who is working/only learning short term if he has everything else you’re looking for?
Because it was like a hundred degrees and humid, she was just finally falling asleep for a twenty second nap in between preparing for a model lesson and finishing i think two other reports. kitzur, my mind wasn’t with me when she called a rational thought actually pops into her head “why not”
goodquestion-yeah but I’m not actively looking for a guy but I’ll consider it if it comes up
And now she is known as the girl who isn’t 100% committed to the Kollel lifestyle. How will she get a shidduch? what will her parents think?
2)shadchan- so how can I contact you?
goodquestion- well text me if you have anything
Uh oh a girl with texting how can she be worth marrying?
3)somehow it comes up in the converstion
goodquestion-but they dind’thave anything in size six so I couldn’t buy anything.
shadchan- But it says on your shidduch resume that you are size 2