Boys look for girls who are chilled. Plain and simple. Guys cant stand whiners, complainers, MASHGIACH TYPES, critics, overly emotional (cries over everything).
There are other things that are important like looks or money, but thats not something you can do anything about. However any girls who are dating should know, guys want easygoing chilled girls. If you arent that way, you will have to learn to be that way because guys need their space and cant stand being bugged, nudged…giving your husband a hard time will not lead to an easy marriage.