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November 23, 2010 6:58 pm at 6:58 pm
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dunno
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There’s no guarantee that the husband will learn for 5 years after marriage even if both spouses agree to it. When people ask information they focus so much on life plans. Pray tell what 23 year old knows EXACTLY what he will be doing 10 years down the road. Granted, they have some idea of what direction life will take them but you hear about people who will refuse to date someone because he’s only planning on learning for 5 years and they want 7. No one knows where life will take them so it’s time to be just a little more flexible.