i actually live in a community with 3 top yeshivas here. one of them i stay away from because of all the people ive seen hurt from there and how they turn away from certain people. the other yeshiva i happen to love! i am close with the rosh yeshiva and the rosh kollel(yes i am) i was mainly discussing what i have seen in the past. im nto saying ive never seen good. i am simply stating how i feel which is allowed supposedly in the CR and at the end of the day i feel its the mans responisibility to take care of the wife and it shouldnt be her or his fathers. because why should he have to suffer the stress and why cant the son learn how to? Isnt that how daddy got his riches???? it just isnt a way to teach children how to fend for themselves…if you read the books(like even the jewish novels) you see how it effects the children. the wife thinks she can spend and spend and that her father will always be there to bail her out but that is not how it works. the husband and wife are a team and they have to do it together!
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