Sacrilege
Wisewoman is right. Just because someone is in Kollel doesn’t mean he is a mentch!
Someone once contacted the Steipler Gaon, Zt”l, Rav Yisrael Yaakov Kanievsky, to inquire about a bachur for a shidduch for his daugh The Steipler said that that boy is a very big masmid, and that the bo Rebbe should be contacted to check him out in terms of his middos. The father was confused. “Didn’t the Steipler just tell me that this bo a big masmid!? How can it be that the boy doesn’t have good middo he learns all day and night?” The Steipler answered him simply, “all bachur has to do is sit with a Sefer and a Shtender, neither of which talk back to him or ask him to take out the garbage.”