WiseWoman
I’m happy for you that you found your husband and that you are (seemingly) happy. That being said.
“I can stand all those people that sit and learn all day and then complain they are too tired to take care of their wives and children and have to go to sleep. I also cant stand it when they are learning all day to do this mitzvah and that one and they treat their wives like garbage or even worse!”
I’m not sure why you feel the need to put down others and hurl baseless and meaningless accusations. Does this make you feel better about your husband, about your marriage?
I for one am not looking for a “long term learner”, but I dont go around putting down the Kollel life style either. If its not for you then its not for you.