the fellow i was married to learned for many,many years with my full consent(and hard work).he was severely abusive. ..i don’t think achzorius is the average midda of “the full-time learner” but it teaches an important lesson.we both wanted the learning(it turned out not for the same reasons,alas).we scrimped and asked neither side for financial support.BUT WITHOUT STRONG BEIN ADAM L’CHAVEIRO -even if you do everything else 100% right… it’s going to unravel.if my daughters want a guy who doesn’t become his own da’as torah,that’s fine with me.an arrogant ben torah is an OXYMORON.(did i hear you say moron?tsk,tsk!)
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