I don’t want to ditch the labels. If there are only torah jews and not torah jews, I am afraid many people will group me with the not torah jews.
I don’t think it makes sense to group people into only two groups.
Now, if someone were to argue that we should stop grouping people at all, I would be more amenable to that idea.
But still, grouping helps us understand people and refer to them easily. I know what to expect from someone who is yeshivish, or MO. I know who to set up with my niece, and how to refer to her in a way that people will understand better than no label at all.