msseeker, maybe I can spare our OP the trouble, but you’re mixing apples and oranges. Someone who’s always been on the straight and narrow just may not get on with someone who’s needed some breathing room, or done whatever. I don’t see any consistency. Now as time goes on in shidduchim, sometimes people need to think outside the box and be receptive to some things they weren’t. I don’t think it’s time yet…
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