Aries,
That story is so sad, and unfortunately not atypical.
I can say that the old Rebetzin in Bais Yaakov of Monsey understood that and took in my sister who was definitely not your “typical BY girl” and helped her through challenging years. Even when my sister flaunted authority and wore blue nailpolish or no socks/stockings.
I know that the Rebetzin is sitting in olam haba smiling down on all of us. She did so much right in her life.