If you don’t like the society, feel free to leave it.
Ah, so you advocate people *leaving* frumkeit if they don’t adhere to your definition of it. Why don’t you ask your rabbeim if that’s *really* the proper approach. Come back and tell me if even one says “yes, tell them to go off the derech….”
Your version of Shivim Panim LaTorah is kind of like Henry Ford’s version of choice of colors on the Model T.
The Wolf