nameless, thats not insensitive, thats just stupid. (no better word.)
I think I once said this in the CR, but it bears repeating. I heard this straight from someone who was there. I know the person it happened too.
While she was sitting shiva for her mother, someone told her (a much older single) that now that her mother was niftar, she could get married. Its a sad sad world out there. :/