chochmas lev fits the most to what you’re saying. sounds like you could fit in meohr too but chochmas lev is like half the size and you said you preffered smaller. but i think other than that they’re pretty interchangeable. both very good by schools, not too yeshivish, and open minded to where the girls are coming from.
pet peeve – i thought pninim is considered a non bais yaakov seminary?