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October 24, 2010 11:54 am at 11:54 am
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minyan gal
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I have often wondered if some of the “learners” are wasting this opportunity and just using it as an chance to “escape” from some of the harsh realities of life. For someone who may not be the greatest student or very ambitious this is a convenient “out”. It removes a lot of life’s reponsibilities – someone else is supporting them, they sit all day in a fairly sheltered environment and then go home to an adoring family. I doubt if there is a very high percentage of people like this, but surely there must be some. I think that these are the same people that could never hold down a job and got through school with very mediocre marks.