If a person is smart, he will check the Dor Yesharim numbers before the couple even go out one time. With all the phone calls that you make to check out a shidduch, this call is easy and they get back to you with an answer about if your kids are genetically compatible regarding the diseases they check for right away. Think about it, what does it matter if everything else matches up perfectly if the genetics are not compatible?Do it before the couple meets or if for some reason it wasn’t done then, don’t let a second date happen before you do it. You will never be sorry nor will you feel like you are pressuring the other side and making them think you are holding by getting engaged when you ask for the numbers in the middle of a shidduch. When the person who designed the system set it up, he made it very clear that you are supposed to check the numbers before a couple meet. If you think it’s too much bother for something that might not amount to more than one date, ask yourself if it may be more important than looking to find out if the other family stacks their dishes at the table or uses plastic tablecloths.
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